This (chap) Book Will Change Your Life - Some Identity Problems by Corey Mesler.

Whenever we think about TBWCYL, Inc. favorite and This Zine Will Change Your Life contributor Corey Mesler a phrase always comes to mind, you sir are a gentleman, a scholar and a fine judge of liquor. And it was no different as we read the poems in Some Identity Problems, except that we were also reminded of the fact that no one writes about males like Mesler does; males and females, males and writing, males and their relationships with their children and God and even themselves. Mesler just knows dudes, and unlike Ben Stiller's character in Greenberg, Mesler knows Mesler and his writing is all the better for it.