Everything you ever wanted to know about dating, but we're afraid to ask. Well, that and a guest post on TNBBC's The Next Best Book Blog.

Following their quite fine, and most appreciated, review of Most Likely You Go Your Way and I'll Go Mine, the quite fine and endlessly cool team behind TNBBC's The Next Best Book Blog asked if TBWCYL, Inc. spokesperson Ben Tanzer if he might be willing to talk dating in a guest post on the blog. Apparently, the fact that Ben knows near nothing about dating wasn't an issue for them, or Ben, and so we invite you to take a look at the post and enjoy the below excerpt. We also want to thank TNBBC for their ongoing support, we're not sure if its changing their lives, but it is most definitely changing ours.

"I have barely dated as an adult and whatever I was doing before getting where I am now, fourteen years and two little children into a marriage with someone I met as a teenager, probably had less to do with dating acumen, than meeting someone, or someone’s, sometimes sober, sometimes not, and getting as much action as possible, all the while trying to both hold on until things terribly imploded, and futilely avoid the inevitable tears and anguish, usually mine, though also those of whoever's mother I was refusing to let go of and borderline stalk, though back then we called it courting."